Do I sound like your mother? Do I Do I?? Here’s my first tip about staying sane as perfectionist in a cluttered home! Make your bed as soon as you get up. Get any chores done having to do with your bedroom as quickly as possible. Truly make it your sanctuary. It doesn’t need to be fancy; or full of nice furniture ( It can be if you like that ;)) Just do it. I keep my bedroom the way I wish I could keep the rest of my home and it truly helps my brain! Clean,simple,fancy,tidy. Do it. Do it. And let me know how it goes!!